Suspicious of your husband cheating in Dubbo? Believe me, I've been there. I've been married twice now, and both of those relationships are totally over. In both cases, my husband was cheating on me. In my first marriage, it took me years to pick up on the signs of his infidelity. When I actually caught my husband red handed, it totally devastated me. However, it gave me the tools I needed to catch my second husband cheating. Believe me, he did not last very long — as soon as he started having the affair, it only took me a couple of weeks before I actually found him tussling in the sheets with a young brunette. Due to my past experience, I consider myself to be a bit of a veteran when it comes to determining whether or not a partner is cheating. Read on as I pass my experience onto you.
Time to Find Out if He's Cheating
As soon as you become suspicious that your man is cheating, it's time to take action immediately. Of course, I don't mean that you should instantly hack into his phone and look through his messages — that will only come later, if necessary. For now, just keep an eye out for further signs that might confirm his infidelity. Once these signs begin to accumulate, you have the open road to take more drastic measures in order to truly find out whether or not he's cheating.
Every Cheater Leaves a Trail
While some cheaters are more cunning than others, I have learned that absolutely every cheater leaves some sort of trail, and you can pick up on that trail if you're meticulous enough. For instance, if your man is spending more and more time “working late” in the office, then you have an open trail to find out whether or not he is truly cheating. In this case, you can simply stake out his workplace near the end of his shift when he said he'll be staying late, and follow his car after work. If he goes straight to a motel, or some stranger's house, then in all likelihood he is meeting up with his mistress for some sex. The trail might also be a virtual one, left behind in his phone conversations and online chats. Either way, once you become sure that further investigation is needed, there will always be a trail for you to follow.
Find Him Cheating
One you find him cheating, there is really no turning back. All options for ignorance are gone at this point. You have now come face to face with the reality that you're supposed soulmate is making love to another person. That is a truly devastating situation to be in, believe me. But from my experience, I know that it's totally necessary in order to move on to a better, brighter future.
Catch Him Cheating
Catching him cheating will leave a visual imprint in your mind that will never go away. Even now, after so many years have gone by, I still remember the look on both my ex husband's faces when I saw them in bed with another woman. I don't think that the memory will ever go away. The image won't be easy to deal with, but again, the experience is necessary if you're looking to invite better things into your life in the future.